"When you see a worthy person, endeavor to emulate him. When you see an
unworthy person, then examine your inner self." - Confucius
If my work with people experiencing homelessness, suffering from addictions, and living in extreme poverty
has taught me little else, it is that EVERY one of us is worthy of
love, respect, compassion and kindness- no matter how little you seem to
be able to understand about their experience/s. If you find yourself
unable to understand this, as Confucius says, "then examine your inner
self."
What frightens you most about offering your highest
self to others, especially those you deem unworthy? What creates
barriers in you that does not allow you to see their vulnerability and
insecurity, their pain and suffering, their disconnection and
discomfort? Is it perhaps that those exist at some level in you,
unresolved? Does seeing others differently, as less worthy, allow you
to protect those spaces within you by deflecting and projecting? Does
it allow you to indulge your emotions in ways that do not serve you or
others? Does it give you an excuse not to care?
Whenever you
catch yourself in moments like these, whip those questions out and start
breaking them down- challenge those places inside of you, and adjust
them. We have major shifts to make in our world, starting within us,
then spreading...shifts that will benefit 'all' of us.
In loving service,
L.
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